Hello Everyone .. first of all i would say finally i come back here for continuing my story and what's going on between us after so many years has been pass. well yeah , honestly i almost forget that i've been make this post and such a sudden i remind that i had one .
such a little trouble for get the blog back since i forgot what kind of email that i used but its pretty fine now .
Okay lets continue what the story after ..
so , curently and ofcourse it will be always and the same ever .. i'm still with the same man that i've been with and it means that YES ! our relationship is continuing since ever the post up.
however people will start considering , " how come that kind of relatioship is really work? " , this case will be always a question mark also for me how does it work for so many years for me.
Taken in 2013
yes thats me and him 3 years ago before this years (2016) and 1 years after i posted the relationship post. its pretty long if i got flash back what we did before ..
whoever saying that relationship and more long distance relationship is something will never work or never will happened such impossible is wrong :) all people is really depending each other right ? if you have a will for it and also the bless from the God everything will be fine even you will face so many rock bottom during all your life.
Personally me , i really almost give up on the way i am but however love will come back to you and make you choose the right choice between OVER or CONTINUE . looking all couple dating on weekend and also enjoy them self during u all alone on your room with your laptop and maybe games honestly its irritating me , LOL ! but what can i do since its the way i choose :(
year by year pass .. some of you also wonder what kind our realtionship still ? :)
yes .. i'm no longer his girlfriend yet .. and he is no longer my boyfriend .. so what ? fiancé ?? i dont think so since we got more level than this ..
and yes we got married (^_^)/
we married in december 2014 and exactly in my own country we did .
Taken in 2014
start from 2010 my relationship and yes its ended in 2014 that kind hell of relationship. maybe one or two times maximum for meet each other and also cost a lot of money since its quite far indonesia - france :) it wasn't easy at all . but once again i told you guys , its worth it in the end if you both having a faith on each other. its hard .. its pain ..its suffocated .. yes i felt it , but i sacrifice all i have for my happy ending and God lead the ways so far for us. PRAYS whenever you feel the hardest way and the key of this kind of relationship is you have to trust each other and communicate as long as u have time . what does that mean ? i'm sharing whatever i'm doing and the same for him . SO , there is no private ? why should i sharing each detail ? doesn't it childish ??
i guarantee you its not ! but i do feel bored sometimes cause its always the same things everyday. but do you know where your trust is gain day by day? if you are not even sharing what you doing in your day ? this is special relationship . you can't meet him everyday whenever u want and the maximum you can have through videocall . by chance he is worker and sometimes busy or maybe the other side and also with the different of time all you can do make each other feel that you both in the same dimension with time or place .
Paris - Jakarta - Paris - Jakarta its been always like it for the past 4 years. but i'm grateful still that i always have a chance to meet him even one month from one year i had.
and now i'm done . i'm officially his wife now and now i'm living in france . facing him everyday , talking him everyday and all the times. u got your pay back in the end so never scared to give a chance if you really love each other . Nobody says its easy , but its worth to try :)
i hope my post really bring the support for some people in long distance relationship or such a relationship . whatever the country or city or island .. love will find you a way :)
be strong , courage and keep faith !
FIRST !i would apologize if i wrong type something cause i'm still not enough good for english and also for tenses / grammar :p
but i hope this article could be something for some people :)
well , Just started a website called facebook
and add random, until finally finding facebook each other and fell in love with
one another. That's what happened between me and him. My name is Devi and his
name jerome, I live in Bogor Indonesia precisely but i’m a student and study in
jakarta and he is a worker who lives in France longjumeau. Now 19 years old I
went 20 and 22 years old he moved 23 years.
starts from chat on msn facebook and
skype thats what we do everyday . At that time I still do not see his face and
hear his voice, then I ask for it because I was curious for webcam / video
call. However, he refused for some
reason maybe because I was not too familiar with him.Apparently behind the talkative side he is very shy, he was
ashamed to show himself. Finally we decided to talk by phone skype (we speak
english anyway), his voice is not bass and made me more curious and finally 3
days later he dared to expose himself via webcam. Well, a little bit surprising
to see him but there is something about him that made me stuck to him. His
smile is sweet, makes me interested in him ;D and we did it everyday after .
Finally one day, arround the months of
November, he has a plan to go to korea with his cousin and his brother. But
when he talked about the trip to Korea, I propose to meet me in Indonesia more
better, it was really serious about our plans on the run day after day. January
2011 he got a passport and arround in march he bought a ticket to meet me.
July, the month is what we are waiting for the first meeting.
8 months we waited for the meeting, not
a very easy way .. With a longdistance,
asia and europe, we need to fight hard and huge patience. Arguments for the
sake of argument that occurs, misunderstanding each other, as well as the
jealousy of each other is tested. But honestly, long distance seem impossible
but nothing impossible!
And july was coming, we are so excited
~ July 2, he landed in Jakarta by emirates plane on 3.45pm .. I was along with my sister and my mother waited for him
out of the gate but still he didnt.
The mind was erratic because his handphone
was doesnt work , well .. wait again , and for sure the result of patience is always NICE .. 3 hours I
waited and finally he came out of the gate with a black suitcase and a black
jacket. I was running to him, but since the first meeting of course we wont be
free , we was so ashamed. Then we were still shy and not talkative. His face
looked so tired because he had not slept during his trip to Indonesia. So poor L Finally we all returned to his dorm and his
dorm about only a few meters from my house. When we arrived, we prepare for his
clothes to wardrobe and he was going for take a shower and after finish he
wanted directly to go to my house without a break. This western really
impatient, I thought. Hahahahaha, but the at sametime happiness is always there
in me. A man who had never met me before and then daring to go alone to meet
her lover without the slightest fear.
love is stronger between us with this
first meeting. He lived until 29 July 2011 with his visa on arrival in
Indonesia. While in Indonesia, we take a walk to some places where foreign
visited often time , Monas (monument national) , botanical garden (Bogor
botanical garden), Ancol beach and several other places. I am very happy with its presence in the month of July,
and also didnt forget for introduction of himself to my parents and several
other families. Then it implies that our relationship more to be close .. Day after day together and
pass over in laughter, sadness, emotion .. And finally the 29th of July 2011
came where he should go back to france to see his family again.sadness, loss and loneliness for sure what we felt because we was just together but must be
separated again. But we promised to meet again and soon. I close my July with
him with a last hug with him. That's how our journey with the first meeting that
occurred in Indonesia.
When he was arrived in France, we went
back into our lives via the internet. But we insisted that we would meet again
and we made plans that we will meet again in the month of December. If we try so hard and wanted it so much by faith and
works, nothing is useless. Finally , the ticket was bought by him with a lot of
hard works and effort from him for our meeting . it was so amazing moment and
so unbelievable . but it wasnt stop at those time , this is the hard part, the
visa has not been made and there has been no preparation and at the same time I
must have a paper that embassy ask for some permission to live there from the city
hall .
But we wont give up , we will work hard
for make everything done . start from all document from me and him that we was
prepared . and after , All the preparations done immediately. Frebut french
ambassy need a real paper of city hall , they dont accept for the copy one .
than he was sent the paper by package and LUCKY it was arrived after one week .
Heart was very anxious at that time. But again, someone really hard work will give
good results. After 2 weeks , i got some called without number while i slept .
and it was french ambassy called me == “ some guy talk me and ask me through a
short interview by mr. Rauch from the French embassy with the English language
and he did also interview with my boyfriend by phone . and after all he told to
my boyfriend that visa was valid . 2 days after , i got a message from TLS
contack that invite me to come for take all the document . and i was so scream
, GOTCHA !!! about 3 pm I took the document and yeaa ... visa Schengen was
printed on my pasport for 1 month.
A week afrer , packing began. Because
the December was a winter, of course, i prepared and will brought warm clothes.
And it will be 3 days later , that i will take my flight to paris . We were
waiting for those day and we were so happy, and day after day passed until 17
December 2011 . finally this day come , i will come soon ~~ but honestly , i was so scared cause it was my first time
i took my plane alone and so far , asia
– europe . but for sure behind of it , i felt very happy and very impatient. TARAM
! aboarding time was come , and i must be there . so some goodbye between me
and some of my family also happened ~ than after i walked to aboarding place . Jakarta
- Abudhabi - Paris that's what the route for my plane . 18 hours I will be on a plane with a transit
time as well to reach the city of Paris fashion. Fortunately for my plane is not too boring, their has a good service ,
and there was some delicious food and drinks and various snacks that they will
give. And also some of e-box to watch tv and listen to music infront of me ,
even though the economy class but the class seemed like queen for a very
satisfactory service.
6:50 am the plane finally landed in
Charlles De Gaulle, yeahh i'm so impatient to see my lover in front of the gate
waiting for me. I walk up to the booth out of places to check passports and
also for took my suitcase . After i got my suitcase, I rushed out to find the
exit gate. BOOM! When i found it and walked out , the first face I saw that he
was, how happy I am then and there and with the same feeling a little
embarrassed. After a few minutes, I knew that his mother, his brother and his
sister family came to meet me. Nervous as I know and felt when i came close to
them, they talked French and I dont understand anything, what they say. but still i could understand a little bit by
non verbal speaking .
and also his niece came to find me ,
his niece named Lea (7 yo) and Noemi (4 yo) immediately grabbed my hand and led
me into the car to go home's my lover. they are so cute , i really love them
While in the car I was just silent and
listen them talk before I do not forget text a message to my family that I have
arrived in Paris , via his mobile phone. when in home we were taking a break
while talking,and shortly thereafter came out around the area where he lives. A
word that I know about the French, AMAZING!
23 days I will stay there for any
round-trip ticket was purchased at the same time. During my days in France is
very pleasant, very friendly with his family and loved me so well and also with
him that makes me happy. Eiffel tower, ice skatting, shopping mall, christmas
event, new year event, and many more things that I passed it for 23 days. I did
a lot of activity there.
Not only with his family, but I also
met his best friend since many years ago. and as long as I am in France I met
some other friends. happy to be able to met with the people around him and
makes me feel closer to him. Will know some things I did not know while in
Indonesia. it was happy time to be there, I wanted to live there, but I know, I
definitely have to go back because the study is not finished and my family that
awaits me at home.
And 9 january 2012 arrives, it's time I
should go back and say goodbye. It's hard to leave him because I was very close
with him and also family feel the same. But we are no longer a choice, just be
patient to wait for the next trip again.
Cry in the last day came when the heart
is totally sad and it should release it. But that's what should happen, last
hug and sweet kiss that I gave last time at the airport. No tears at the time,
but the tears spilled while I was on the plane and when the pilot announced
"take off".
Not only sad, there was feel annoyed
because my transit time to wait for the next flight which is 18 hours! very
boring being in airports, and lucky I found the wifi in the food court
abudhabi. if not, I will stand up to play pc that were there for so many hours.
There was a meeting of course there
must be separation, but separation in january it is not the end of everything.
For us it's only the delayed meeting to be together forever.
and when im arrived in indonesia , my
mom was came to airport for accompany me back home. we also live a normal life
again as the previous days. Webcam and chat. thats what will we do until the
next trip come .We've been together 1 year 3
months now, and we really love each other. I hope the time goes fast, and time
stay together forever (marriage) will be come near .
Long distance relationship is not an
easy one is not even something that looks simple. it is very complicated . Loneliness, need
each other, quarrel, we can not pass over in a day or a matter of a few hours
like a normal couple, but we must pass over in the words of a keyboard or
keypad. even far , but We are proud of our relationship, until this
day we can stand strong for our future together.
Anyway, soon valentine day ~ but we are
not together .. Sad really, but it does not matter ~: D keep strong! We will
celebrate with cam val'day (з '. ⌣'`ε)
For all of you who read this article, I
beg your prayers and support for us to stay together and long lasting \ (≧∇≦) / ♥ and this story , when the next trip come , I will continue
this story until even our wedding party coming , Amiiiiinnnnnnnnn ~
hhihihihihi. Thanks for your attention,
